A Special Moment in my Garden

Sunday, May 12, 2013

South Pacific Island Cruise: April 5 to May 10, 2013

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Some of you may already know that I went on a writing retreat disguised as a tropical cruise (or was it the other way around). I've been on a few cruises before but this one had a different flavor. Most of the cruisers were elderly (average age 68); and four of them died during the cruise. A fifth one had to be medivac by helicopter (along with a fixed wing to refuel the helicopter in flight). My husband and I were not spared from the cruising virus. I was sick the first two weeks, hubby was sick the last three weeks.
 
There are a few things that I learned during this cruise. I will be sharing those insights over the next while. If you are planning a cruise, beware! It can be the best experience or the worst. For a daily report of my experience, I posted my experiences on my facebook (fsauthor).
 
The video above is an abbreviated version of the happy times aboard the Westerdam ship of Holland America. Therefore, the video is shorter than one would expect for a 35 day trip.
 
If you would like just one important piece of advice - BUY MEDICAL INSURANCE!!!!!
 
And, I did accomplish my main goal. I was successful in doing a major rewrite of Forbidden.
 
Feather

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Cruising Updates

Catch my updates on my cruising through the South Pacific Islands at my facebook account. Click on "Family and Friends" page.

Feather

Monday, April 8, 2013

Cruising

Hi friends: I'm a cruisin! Wouldn't you know it? It's a bit chilly out there still. I've discovered I can't download my photos so you'll just have to believe that it's a good that I packed a sweater. As planned I spent most of yesterday writing. But this time, I'm gazing out at the endless Pacific Ocean while planning Captain Khan's next move. The food on this ship is amazing and all the cruise staff are so warm and friendly. It's a big ship so any worry about gaining weight is dismissed while walking the long corridors, looking for the correct deck to get to dinner. Ralph is exhausted and sleeping most of the time. Tomorrow is another quiet day - no excursions; not arriving at Hawaii until the day after, I think. Not too worried about schedules and such. Hope all is well with everyone.

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Love Like You'll Never Get Hurt

As I move through the years, experiencing growth and set backs, I see the scars of failure more vividly than evidence of my achievements. Is it human nature to see the dark side of life more readily? Do we live in fear more often than in bliss?

I bought a rock with an inscription, "Love like you'll never get hurt." It serves as a reminder to set aside the moments of rejection and disappointment. It's a challenge for me given my years of conditioning during childhood. I lived in constant fear.

As I developed into adulthood, I gravitated to animals more and more. I could trust them. They have no alliterative motives, no hidden agenda, no ego. Loving an animal is safe. Other than the pain of losing them through death, the rewards of giving your heart away to Fido or Fluffy is without risk.

Animals are teachers. I've observed animals who have a history of extreme abuse. When rescued and placed in a loving home, they heal quickly (most of the time). It's as though they leave the past in the past. They are able to love again - like they'll never get hurt again. They live in the present completely. They are in the moment, anticipating a romp in the backyard, a cuddle on the couch, a tasty treat.

They're continuously patient. Forgiving. Accepting. Courageous. Loyal. Affectionate. On and on, animals have qualities of character that are often lacking in the human species. Only an animal can be placed in a home and be completely ready and willing to ....

Love Like You'll Never Get Hurt.
 
 

Thursday, March 28, 2013

We can become overwhelmed with stuff. If this 'stuff' hits me one at a time, I can manage to remain centered and sail through rough waters unscathed. However, often 'stuff' descends upon me like bullets from a AK47. After the initial panic, I remember that I have a secret weapon. My breath.

 
 
Here's an excerpt from Higher Awareness.

USE YOUR BREATH TO RELAX YOUR BODY
 
"Breath is the link between the inner and outer worlds."
-- Alice Christensen
 
We live in very demanding times, and our health depends on our being able to relieve our bodies and minds from constant stress. Breathing with awareness can focus and concentrate our attention inside. This slows down our pace and eases the pressure, anxiety, anticipation and excitement that are common stress reactions.

At any time, you can consciously experience your breathing to help you concentrate your mind and relax your body. Compare how you feel after your session with how you felt before. Write about your experience in your journal.

"Controlled deep breathing helps the body to transform the air we breathe into energy. The stream of energized air produced by properly executed and controlled deep breathing produces a current of inner energy which radiates throughout the entire body and can be channeled to the body areas that need it the most, on demand."
-- Nancy Zi

Monday, March 25, 2013

How to Safely Enjoy the Dog Park

Sammy and I often go to our off leash dog park. The City of Spruce Grove has done an excellent job of designing this large landscaped space; one area for small dogs and another for larger dogs. There are days when the people and dogs are friendly and well balanced. Then, there are days when just one or two aggressive dogs spoil the experience.

During the winter months, the area for small dogs is not used as the snow is too deep. The area for larger dogs gets used by everyone as the bigger dogs and people pound down the snow to a hard pack, easy to walk on.

As Sammy is a 9 month old puppy and needs more training, I keep him on leash if we're in with the larger dogs. If the dogs are friendly, I let him off leash but within reach. Even so, it's stressful always having to be on guard when an undisciplined, out of control dog lunges at us.

Dog owners need to be more responsible when attending dog parks. You can't just let your dog off leash if he/she is aggressive, ill-mannered, and does not respond to your commands. If your dog injures another dog or person, you could lose your best friend to the local authorities, and perhaps euthanization if he/she is considered to be too dangerous.

Undersocialized, fearful, anxious or aggressive dogs Many people mistakenly believe that dogs who fear or dislike other dogs just need more socialization. However, if your dog is fearful or nervous around other dogs, exposing her to the hectic environment of a dog park will only worsen her problems. Similarly, if your dog is aggressive toward other dogs, visits to a dog park might exacerbate her behavior and put other people’s pets at risk or ruin their enjoyment of the park. If you’d like to change the way your dog behaves around other dogs, please see our article, Finding Professional Help, to locate a qualified expert who can assist you.
  • Bullies Some dogs, because of their personalities or learning experiences, just don’t play well with others. Dogs who bully can traumatize their weaker or more timid playmates or provoke fights. If bullies are allowed to practice their behavior at the dog park, their behavior often worsens over time-and bad experiences with bullies can cause aggression problems inother dogs.
  • Dog dorks Some dogs don’t bully other dogs on purpose, but they lack more refined social skills and just aren’t capable of playing politely. Despite their good intentions, they seem socially clueless. They’re usually high-energy dogs who enjoy play with lively wrestling, hard mouthing and crashing into other dogs like canine bumper cars. When their playmates dislike the rough treatment and try to communicate their desire to quit playing, these dogs don’t seem to understand. They can also hurt or upset people at the dog park if they jump up and mouth on hands, arms or legs. Because rough players can easily spoil the fun for other dogs and their people, they’re not good candidates for dog parks either.

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    The drawing below represents a fearful dog, which will attack.



    Resource Information

    How to Safely Enjoy the Dog Park

    Dog Park Behavior and Etiquette Tips

    Video on Off Leash Dog Park: <iframe width="560" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/xxL8q5SlRF0" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

    Video on Neutralizing Aggression in Dog Park: <iframe width="420" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/vgX8xtIzGt4" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe>

    Wednesday, March 20, 2013

    And the winner is .................

        Meghan. Here is her comment during this Lucky in Love blog hop.

    What a great giveaway hop! I have yet to be lucky in love but I'm working on it. My favorite love book is "Outlander" by Diana Gabaldon. Jamie Fraser is amazing and beautiful. I enjoy St. Patty's Day and this year I'm spending it with my best friend. We're going to two Irish Pubs and also some dance clubs. I am also wearing green and am not a fan of getting pinched. I'm not Irish either, but many people think I am because my hair is red, my eyes green and my name is Meghan, but I'm not at all. I won't be telling anybody that, however… let them believe I'm Irish.
    Thanks for the giveaway!

    Congratulation, Meghan. I just know you're going to love reading my book. There is some similarity with the Outlander story (I loved the entire series, especially Outlander). The heroine in The Guardian's Wildchild (Sidney Davenport) was a captured espionage suspect, and she resisted falling in love with the tough Captain Waterhouse, a tough warrior in the American Naval Service.

    Friday, March 15, 2013

    Lucky in Love Blg Hop

    Please go to my "LUCKY IN LOVE BLOG HOP" page to enter your name for giveaways.

    Thursday, March 14, 2013


    It's a tribute to our Irish author, Carol Oates,
    in honor of St. Patrick's Day!

    To celebrate, we're offering the ebook of SHADES OF ATLANTIS for FREE on the Omnific website today through Sunday! Please share, and hop on the blog bounce!

    Synposis: Since the death of their parents, Triona Pryor and her brother, Ben, have lived with their aunt and uncle in Camden, Maine. Now in her senior year of high school, Triona loves her family and friends, but she has always felt that she didn't quite fit in...in Camden, or anywhere else. Enter Caleb Wallace, the devilishly handsome man who has recently moved to Triona's small town. While their attraction to each other is instantaneous, it also proves to be dangerous...and deadly. When tragedy strikes, Triona flees to London for solace and to start her life anew. It's there she discovers from an unlikely source that her family has been keeping secrets from her - secrets about not only her birthright, but her ultimate destiny as well. Armed with this knowledge, Triona finds herself thrown into a whole new world and into a battle to save the lives of everyone she loves.
    Shades of Atlantis

    Carol Oates blog:  http://www.caroloates.com/2013/03/shades-of-ireland-at-bru-na-boinne-free.html

    Omnific Publishing: http://www.omnificpublishing.com

    Goodreads: See reviews at:
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    Monday, March 11, 2013

    Divine Temptation by Nicki Elson

    News from my friend and fellow author, Nicki Elson:
     
    I'm thrilled to announce that Nicki's next book, Divine Temptation, is about to arrive.  You can tell Nicki is just sizzling with excitement in her talk below.
     
     
    Nicki ElsonNicki Elson:  Some of you may have noticed that I was all chit-chatty here for a while about my upcoming novel, Divine Temptation, and then...siiiiilence. That's because we hit a snag in the editing process, and I convinced myself that I'd jinxed the book by talking about it too publicly. But I'm happy to report that it has passed on to the last phase of the pre-publication process (tentative release date of March 26), and things are moving along well enough that I'm emerging from my vow of silence.

    The first exciting news is that my publisher has approved Michael Di Gesu as the exclusive host of my cover reveal! The reveal will be Monday, March 11. Michael has begun writing the most clever and fun cover intro's so I'm absolutely thrilled about this development.
    I don't know about you, but I find it interesting that my little story has already stirred up a bit of controversy among the staff at my publisher. I've always wanted to write books that incited debate and pushed buttons, and I can now definitively say that Divine Temptation does that. What's really fun is that, like Three Daves, it has the potential to fluster readers at polar opposite ends of a spectrum. What can I say---I'm an equal opportunity offender.
     

    Nicki Elson's Websites:
    http://nickielson.com/
    http://nickielson.blogspot.ca/

    Thursday, March 7, 2013

    For all you blog hop bunnies ........

    Looking for great prizes?
    Enjoy meeting amazing authors and bloggers?
    Need some new reading material?

    Be sure to participate in
    Lucky In Love Blog Hop - March 15 to 18
     
    Prizes????

    The Guardian's Wildchild (ebook)
     
    AND BLOG HOP HOST'S MEGA PRIZES TBA at .......

    CARRIE ANN'S BLOG HOP



    Go to my "LUCKY IN LOVE" page for details.

    Tuesday, February 26, 2013

    Free offer to Learn Animal Communication

    Feather Stone:  Calling all animal lovers. I received notice from Sue Becker regarding an opportunity for those who are interested in animal communication - and wish to learn how to do it.

    I've done extensive research into animal communication. Being very particular about the health of my animals, I don't employ the services of people unless they are the very best in their field. Sue was referred to me by someone I respected. Then, after one conversation with Sue, I knew she was truly a talented person and dedicated to the health and wellbeing of animals. Since then, I have remained in contact with Sue and her programs. Sue's latest program is described below. AND IT'S FREE!
     
    Sue Becker


     
    Would You Love to Really Talk with Your Animal Friends

    In a Way They Can Understand?

    If you want a deeper connection with your animal friends...
     
    Are you hearing more and more about Animal Communication and want to be able to do it yourself? If you’d love to learn more or if you’re just beginning on your communication path – you're invited to join me for this free one-hour teleseminar so you can get started communicating better with your animals RIGHT AWAY!

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    On this exciting call, you’ll learn
    ü How telepathy with animals IS possible and why we humans aren’t so good at hearing them - and how to change that
    ü 4 Specific Points of Understanding so you can really ‘get’ where your animal is coming from
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    ü 5 EASY STEPS that you can do NOW to start communicating with your cat, dog, bird, horse or other animal companion
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    To your empowerment and connection - and to the animals who will benefit from it,
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    Sue Becker BFRP, BFRAP, CTTP

    Animal Communicator & Consultant

    Vet Recommended



    Monday, February 25, 2013

    Read  my article on Health and Passion under my "Find Your Passion" page.

    Excerpt:  Health and Passion

    I have a theory that if we deny our passions long enough, our spirit suffers. With an ailing spirit, our physical, mental and emotional health declines.

    Conversely, when people suffer from chronic or terminal illness finally honor their passion, the benefits are phenomenal, even appear miraculous. Symptoms of pain and depression are reduced (or disappear). Doctors become amazed at the improvement of their patient's overall wellbeing.

    It's becoming more accepted in the medical community that a person's mental status plays a significant role in their physical wellness. If you believe you are ill, even though there is no evidence of a mallady, you will surely become ill. What you believe, so shall it be. Sounds familiar? There are religious texts that warn of the power of our thoughts. Is is not reasonable to believe that if there is evidence of a mallady, that I can use my power of thought to change the course of that illness.

    Wednesday, February 20, 2013

    Interview with Alberta SPCA Peace Officer King

    FEATHER STONE:  In 2008 I participated with Rescue 100, a group of dedicated people who care about horses. Rescue 100 was formed at a time when Alberta SPCA removed 100 starving horses from a farm. In the combined efforts of Alberta SPCA and Rescue 100, these beautiful animals recovered and were adopted by loving new owners. Rescue 100 remains active in Alberta. For more information or to offer your assistance go to their website at:  http://www.rescue100.ca/

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        Rescue of 100 horses is just one example of the valuable service provided by the men and women of Alberta SPCA. Here is a summary of the Alberta SPCA's 2011 activity report.

    Alberta SPCA:  Recent Convictions under the Animal Protection Act

    As a result of Alberta SPCA investigations, Alberta Justice initiated almost 15 prosecutions a year on average over the last four years. Many prosecutions take more than a year to complete.
    In 2011, Animal Protection Act prosecutions resulted in 24 convictions and no acquittals. Three of those convictions involved the welfare of beef cattle, 15 involved horses, 1 involved sheep and 5 involved dogs. Sentences included 11 new prohibition orders in 2011. The Alberta SPCA maintains a full list of active prohibition orders in its jurisdiction.


    Interview with Alberta SPCA on
    Dog Breeders

    As my focus is primarily on dogs, I asked the Alberta SPCA to talk about their experiences with puppy mills in Alberta. Per se, as you will see below, Alberta has no legal definition of a puppy mill.  But Peace Officer King cautioned that even though a dog breeder may be registered with a kennel club, that is not an indication of the quality of puppies they produce. I have heard this many times. Every one who is looking for a dog breeder must do their research to ensure they purchase a healthy animal and the breeder has  high standards (ensures their breedings stock does not have genetic faults).

    Alberta SPCA Peace Officer Ryan-Ann King is with us to discuss the issue of dog breeders. Thank you Peace Officer King for taking the time to share your knowledge and experience.

    Feather: What is the definition of a puppy mill?

     Peace Officer King: There is no legal definition of a puppy mill in Alberta—it is a label that is open to personal interpretation. We don’t use the term in our investigations because we deal with the fundamental responsibilities of animal care under the Animal Protection Act, which apply to all animal operations, regardless of what people call them.

     
    Feather: What is the Alberta SPCA's experience with dog breeding operations in Alberta?

    Peace Officer King: Because we don’t use the term puppy mill in our investigations, I will answer in regard to dog breeding operations in general. The Alberta SPCA certainly does respond to any complaints we receive about people breeding pet animals. When we investigate a complaint, we inspect the animals to ensure they are not in distress. The number of animals a person has is not necessarily an issue as long as they are all cared for appropriately. An animal would be in distress, as defined by the Animal Protection Act, if it was deprived of adequate shelter, ventilation, space, food, water or veterinary care; if it wasn’t protected from injurious heat or cold; if it was injured, sick, in pain or suffering; or if it was abused or subjected to undue hardship, privation or neglect. We regularly have veterinarians with us on cases to have them verify the animals’ condition.

     
    Feather: What are the effects of puppy mills?

    Peace Officer King: In situations that other people might call a puppy mill, the possible harmful effects could include the spread of contagious illnesses through over-crowding, the production of genetically unsound animals, or the reduced health of individual animals from over-breeding.


    Feather: What should the public do if they suspect a breeder is a puppy mill operator?

    Peace Officer King: In Alberta, there is no provincial or federal legislation restricting the breeding and sale of pet animals, such as dogs and cats. Every breeder is under the ethical scrutiny of purchasers, however, and if pet purchasers are at all uncomfortable with the conditions they see animals in, they should contact the Alberta SPCA (or the Edmonton or Calgary Humane Societies if they live in those cities).

     
    Feather: Does the Alberta SPCA have concerns about non-professional backyard dog breeders?

    Peace Officer King: There is no recognised professional certification for dog breeders in Alberta. A breeder may be registered with a kennel club, but that doesn’t guarantee professionalism regarding the proper care and breeding of the animals. Our concern is for the proper care of all animals, regardless of what credentials a person may or may not have.

    Alberta SPCA Peace Officer Ryan-Ann King

    Call 1-800-455-9003 to report animals in distress outside Edmonton and Calgary.



    Contact Us

    Before sending a message, please check our Frequently Asked Questions.
    For all other inquiries, you can send an email, write or call us:
    Alberta SPCA
    10806 124 Street
    Edmonton AB T5M OH3 Canada
    Phone: 780-447-3600
    Fax: 780-447-4748
    Charitable Registration #122554488RR0001

    Thank you very much Peace Officer King. I know you are a very busy professional doing a difficult job. Thank you for being there to come to the rescue of all animals. My dear blog visitors, consider offering a donation to Alberta SPCA and/or to your local animal rescue organizations.
    Help animals in need

     


    Tuesday, January 8, 2013

    How to Select a Puppy From a Litter

    Yvonne Halkow of WillowGlyn Shelties is back to continue our interview about ownership of dogs. To learn more about Yvonne please go to my post dated December 3, 2012. Today, our subject is on how to select a puppy from a litter.

    Welcome back, Yvonne. Thank you for talking to us about puppies. Who doesn't love talking about puppies. As a highly respected breeder of Shetland Sheepdogs since 1990, you're an expert on puppies. It doesn't really matter if the puppies are of a small breed or the large breed of dogs. Selectinga puppy in the litter is as important as first selecting the breed of dog.


     
     
    WillowGlyn Shetlies:
    There are specific breed traits that may suit or clash with your lifestyle, so proper research into breed characteristics is very important in selecting an appropriate breed.

    An important breed characteristic to consider is adult size! All puppies are small and cute but are you prepared to live with the adult size of the breed?
     
    Feather: Once you have selected a breeder, how do you select a puppy?

    WillowGlyn Shelties: Obviously, it's best to be able to visit the breeder and litter in person but many people do buy puppies from breeders internet websites without actually seeing the puppies available. If you are able to see the puppies in person, you should look for a puppy that:

    1. appeals to you... if you don't feel drawn to any puppy, it really doesn't matter how well they might fit in your family's lifestyle... you're much less likely to bond with a puppy you're not attracted to and the puppy will pick up on this.

    2. has an energy level that will fit with your everyday lifestyle... if you buy a very active puppy but you tend to be inactive, it may not be a very happy match. If you are inactive, you should probably look at a breed of dog that requires less exercise and quieter puppy from those available. If you are very active and are committed to a couple of very active exercise sessions per day - every day - then you could likely deal with a more active breed or a more active puppy from a breed that requires moderate exercise.


    Dogs require lots of exercise. Those that don't get enough exercise on a daily basis will generally find destructive behaviors that give them some measure of outlet for their excess energy.

    Feather: Are there behavior traits to look for that fit in with your personality or life style?

    WillowGlyn Shelties: Dominant or submissive behaviors may be an important issue to you when deciding on a puppy.

    If you are a push-over when it comes to discipline, you may want a more submissive or
    middle-of-the-road puppy that will follow your leadership easily. A dominant puppy requires an
    owner more able to lay down the rules and know how to get the message across to a dominant
    puppy. If boundaries, rules and limitations are not put on a dominant puppy, they will soon
    learn that they will control the way life proceeds.


    The breeder has been watching the puppies grow and develop over at least 8 weeks and should have a pretty good idea of which puppies are dominant, which are submissive, and which are somewhere in between.


    Feather: How do  you spot a sick puppy or puppy/dog that might have health or behavioral problems?


    WillowGlyn Shelties: Sick puppies tend to look a bit on the miserable side. They may just want to sit in a corner and not interact at all with anyone. They may have weepy eyes, be vomiting or have diarrhea.

    Behavioral issues in young puppies are fairly rare but the beginnings of such problems can exhibit in a fearful appearance, shaking, avoiding interaction with the other puppies and/or with people including the breeder, or growling (not in play). These behaviors can be genetic or can result from lack of socialization.

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    Thank you so very much, Yvonne. Excellent advice. Your advice on ensuring a puppy or full grown dog gets enough exercise cannot be overstressed. If your dog or puppy is destroying your home or continually misbehaves, one of your first clues as to the cause is to determine if the animal is getting enough exercise. Folks, generally speaking, these animals require LOTS of exercise.
    Coming soon will be my interview with Dr. Martin Schiebel, owner of Mayfield Veterinary Hospital in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. One of the questions that Dr. Schiebel and I will be talking about is the health of animals, or more specifically, what are the causes of an animal's poor health. I suspect inadequate exercise might be one of those causes.
    Check back again for more interviews with Yvonne. In her next interview, Yvonne and I will talk about selecting the right veterinarian for your dog. What do you need to consider when selecting a clinic?
    You can contact Yvonne at:

    Phone: 780-361-2205 (Canada)



    Monday, January 7, 2013

    Interview with WillowGlyn Shelties Tomorrow: How to Select Your Puppy

    Tomorrow, Yvonne Halkow of WillowGlyn Shelties will return for another interview. Yvonne and I talk about what to look for when choosing a puppy from a litter. What are the personality characteristics to look for? How to spot a sick puppy or one with behavior problems?

    When Should You Bring Your Puppy Home?

    The photo on below is of my Sheltie mom, LisaLarisaRoo, and her first born son, Seamus. Roo was an excellent mom, constantly checking over her three kids, washing them, feeding. Later, when her other two were adopted, she continued to train Seamus on becoming a strong male. He had been the smallest in the litter - almost half the size of his siblings. Through her ambush tactics on him during walks, rough play, and displays of her fierce guard dog maneuvers, Seamus grew strong and confident.

    I know people are anxious to get the puppy into their home as soon as possible. Some try to get ownership before the puppy is 8 weeks old. Not good.

    Puppies grow through important stages of development in those early weeks which are vital to its maturing to become confident around both people and other dogs. It is essential that the puppy remain with the mom and siblings to gain the best possible maturing in those stages. In fact, I would advise to allow the puppy to remain with its mother for another two weeks. Some breeders will not allow adoption to occur until the puppy is at least 3 months old.

    The mother dog can teach her puppy better than any human in the areas of proper behavior around other dogs. The puppy gains much more confidence and has a stronger foundation to adjust to the human world. I speak from experience in making mistakes. I got my first Sheltie when he was only seven weeks old (many years ago). In spite of attending puppy schools, and socialization, he never was comfortable around other dogs. It was actually sad to see that he was unable to play with his own kind.

    So, think about giving your future puppy a little more time with the mom. Adopt him/her at 8 weeks of age, but then, if possible, visit daily for the next week or two. Then bring the little one home. The transition will go a lot more smoothly. Do your research; talk to your vet ahead of time; and purchase your puppy's bed, toys, leashes, dishes, crate. Think about how your schedule will  need to be adjusted to accommodate puppy (house training, walks, feeding time, puppy classes, vet visit, play time, sleep time, puppy proof your home, etc.) When you visit your puppy bring a towel from home and leave it with the puppy so he/she can get acquainted with your scent.

    Of course, the breeder may tell you it's okay to take puppy home at 8 weeks, and that might be true. Consider giving puppy a bit more time to adjust to you, adjust to being weaned by the mom, and grow in confidence.
    Roo with  her kids on an outing. Vigilant in watching out for hawks and coyotes.

    Believe you are a creator

    "Every moment of your life is infinitely creative and the universe is endlessly bountiful. Just put forth a clear enough request, and everything your heart desires must come to you."
    -- Shakti Gawain

    We hold the power to create whatever we desire. Our ability to manifest the changes we desire depends on the depth and passion of our beliefs and on the focus of our attention.

    With this understanding, we, as individuals and as society, can design a whole new future for ourselves. Our challenge is to break free of society’s world view, to truly empower our imaginations to create brand new realities. It brings a whole new meaning to ‘vision.’

    What do you passionately desire for your own life? For the planet?

    "By believing passionately in something that still does not exist, we create it. The non-existent is whatever we have not sufficiently desired."
    -- Nikos Kazantzakis

    Monday, December 3, 2012

    How to Select a Dog Breeder

     
    This is Max. When he was a couple of hours away from being euthanized at the Edmonton SPCA, the manager went the extra mile to save his life. She knew me and my passion for Shelties. She called and asked if I would adopt a dog that was morbidly obese, had a mouth full of rotting teeth, and was probably not going to live very long. I told the manager that I would adopt him, sight unseen.

    When I picked him up, his coat appeared like he'd never been brushed. He could barely walk, and his breath was beyond bad. Max's story has a very happy ending. He eventually recovered and lived many more years as my mother's faithful companion, then after she passed away, Max was the king in another loving home.

    Max did not have a breeder's registration tattoo and, therefore, was the product of either a puppy mill or back yard breeding. The public is well aware of puppy mill breeders and the horror stories resulting from those irresponsible breeding practices. Puppies are produced for the sake of making money; puppies that are often sick and have chronic illnesses. These breeders have little or no interest in ensuring the puppies are going to good homes. As a result, our shelters and rescue organizations are kept busy collecting these unwanted animals and euthanizing those that fail to be adopted. Those are the "lucky" ones. Many more animals suffer abuse for years and die at the hands of careless owners.

    Over the next several posts, I want to provide information to people who are considering having a dog in their home. One of the questions that you should be asking yourself (one of many questions) is how do you know who is a responsible breeder?

    Lists of breeders are available through the national registry (Canadian Kennel Club, American Kennel Club), local dog associations, local dog clubs, rescue societies, pet stores, etc). Dog breeder standards will vary widely. How do you sort out the good from the bad?

    As promised, here is my interview with Yvonne Halkow, owner and manager of WillowGlyn Shelties. Dog breeders and Sheltie owners have known Yvonne to be a highly respected Shetland Sheepdog breeder. Her females have a few litters, then they are retired, going to loving homes. Her breeding animals are tested to ensure they are genetically sound. And, she is very particular who adopts her puppies.

    Recently I purchased a puppy from WillowGlyn and talked with Yvonne about the dilemma most people face when looking to buy a puppy. How do you know you're buying a healthy puppy from a responsible breeder?

    At the end of this interview post, please feel free to ask Yvonne questions you have about selecting a dog breeder, selecting dog breed, or anything else that is of interest to you about dog ownership.

    Or you can contact Yvonne at:

     
    Phone: 780-361-2205 (Canada)
     

    ·  Thank you, Yvonne, for agreeing to this interview. First, how did you become known as WillowGlyn Shelties?




      
    I decided to register a kennel name and at the time I owned a counseling business known as Willow Counseling so I decided to use that as part of my kennel name. The 'Glyn' part of it seemed to fit with the Shetland Isles where Shelties originated.

     
    ·         How long you've been a breeder?
    Although I purchased my first purebred Sheltie in 1979, I didn't get into showing and breeding until 1990. My first purebred male Sheltie was CH and OTCH Shancryla Bay Beary Bailey purchsed from Lorna Scott/Shancryla Shelties as a young puppy. We learned obedience first and he was a very smart boy finishing his Obedience Trial Championship by the age of three. He was also shown in conformation gaining his championship as he was being trialled in obedience which showed how versatile he was as very often he would do both conformation and obedience at the same show.

    My first litter was born in October of 1992. From that litter of four came one dead puppy, one live deformed puppy that had to be euthanized, one monorchid male and one lovely female, who grew up to become my very first Canadian Kennel Club (CKC) champion and Best Puppy in Show winner. She was CH WillowGlyn Ebony N' Stardust CD and she lived to almost 16 years of age. Since then I have bred or co-bred 76 CKC champions along the way. Several of those also have obedience, agility or rally titles.

     
    ·         Why did you choose to breed Shetland Sheepdogs?
    I chose to breed Shetland Sheepdogs as I had always loved Collies but wanted a smaller dog so Shelties were ideal. They are also very people oriented and intelligent which was a major drawing card for me.


    ·         How does a person choose/find a good dog breeder?

    Prospective puppy buyers of any breed should do some homework before they purchase a puppy. First, one needs to determine which breed’s characteristics are
    a good fit with one’s lifestyle, time and energy.

    1.    Finding a good breeder involves some research also... breeders are not all cut from the same cloth and even show breeders with lots of champions should not be automatically assumed to be the best place to purchase a puppy. Make sure that any breeder you choose does health testing for common breed disorders on both males and females in their breeding program. They should be able to produce paperwork for test results done.

         Commonly, with Shelties the tests that can be done are for hip dysplasia, eye defects,hypothyroidism, and von Willebrands disease (VWD). Shelties can also get epilepsy or familial canine dermatomyositis (skin syndrome) for which there are no tests at present. They either have it or don't and those that have either should not be used in breeding programs.

    2.    For Shelties, I don't believe they are a breed that can be properly socialized if they are not in regular contact with people so it is important to visit a breeder to see how they raise their dogs.

    3.    You want to know if the puppy will be registered... breeders that are Canadian Kennel Club members are not allowed to sell non-registered dogs as purebred. If they don't come with registration papers, they cannot be called purebred as there is no proof even if both parents are registered. Non-members can sell dogs without papers but they still cannot call them purebred.

    4.    Registration papers also belong to the dog so a breeder who has a litter that can be registered should not be saying that the dog costs less without papers.

    5.    All CKC members are expected to register all their litters and to all also register each individual puppy they produce at their own expense and in a timely manner.

    6.    Some breeders do not show their dogs but should absolutely be aware of the common disorders in the breed and be doing health testing.

    7.    For the breeders that you can visit, if you visit and feel comfortable with the way their dogs look and are cared for, as well as the knowledge level of the breeder including health testing, then you should be able to be confident that the puppy you purchase from them.

    8.    All breeders should have some sort of health guarantee - a short term one for immediate health and temperament which both become out of the control of the breeder once the puppy leaves their premises, and a long-term genetic health guarantee for inheritable disorders.

    9.    Pet stores generally get their stock from commercial breeders that mass produce puppies. Some are better than others but you will never know as any contact with the actual breeder of a pet store puppy is not part of the sales agreement... so you never really know where they come from, how they were raised or how much, if any socialization they receive. I doubt that most have health tested parents as testing is expensive and cuts into the profit margin.

    10. One may also want to contact rescue organizations but not many Shelties show up needing to be rescued although it does happen on the odd occasion.

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    Thank you very much, Yvonne, for this important information. I wish I'd known this when I started looking for a Sheltie breeder years ago. My first Sheltie was discovered to have severe bilateral hip dysplasia when he was one year old and was challenged by this disability during his 12 years. His vet and I kept him comfortable through special vet care, special diet, keeping his weight under strict control and ensured his muscle strength.

    For several years I've been fostering abused and abandoned Shelties. You're right that Shelties seldom suffer from abuse. But it does happen. I've been involved with four  heartbreaking cases, two recently (Maya and Jasper).

    Thank you to all my visitors for stopping by my blog. During 2013 I will be presenting an aray of valuable information from professionals who care for animals. I'll will be inviting Yvonne to return and provide us more information in the New Year.

     
    Jasper (originally purchased in a pet store), rescued from an abusive male, treasured in our home until he passed away this year.